Men do your Homework
What men needs to know before committing.
It is silly when we think of how much trouble woman
go through to get that one man they are looking for. Ladies go through extreme extents to keep up
with what they are looking for. A typical example includes looking good and
feeling great, they know that if they want a man who has confidence then she will
also walk tall, chin up carry herself with class and confidence.
How
many times do man look at themselves and do self-introspection, and ask the following question; who am I, where do I
come from, what am I doing to get to my goals, what makes me happy ,what makes
me tick, what are my standard as a man, what do I want, need and desire, and
where am I going. The above questions will not only assist you as a man in
knowing the inner being, but they will help in allowing you to loving yourself
more and not have unrealistic expectations from your partner.
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of the few mistakes that you do is expecting your partner to be prophets and
know what you want yet you don’t even know what you want.
Women are not
“bad people”, “out to destroy men”, or “trying to trick men”. Women and society
simply have certain characteristics and men should be aware of these
characteristics when they decide whether or not to get married.
- You will be having sex once a month. This is not because women are trying to withhold sex from you. It is also not because women view sex (and particularly fellatio) as a “loss leader” or “necessary evil” before marriage. It is simply because women (unlike men) need to be seduced before sex.
- Women need a lot of attention. If you have ambitions on having a great career, then you should definitely not get married. This is because wives take a lot of time. You will need to speak to her on the phone, be home for dinner, go on vacations with her, and so one
- Women become less attractive over time. First, they gain weight. This is because married women have a lot to do (ie. taking care of the kids) and it is difficult to make exercising a priority.
- Marriage is a partnership. This, to my mind, is one of the hardest concepts for men to understand.
- Men are always the losers in a divorce. If you or your wife want to get divorced, then the court will follow a very set pattern. The first issue is money. Since you have a greater earning capacity than your wife, the court will order that you must work to provide money to support the family.
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I like your post, but for some odd reason I can't shake the feeling that the post is based on a flawed assumption that "men are the ones who are wrong and need to change".... am I reading it right?
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